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Why your child might hit you or melt down when you set a limit
Acknowledge your child's feelings even as you hold the limit. Saying 'I know it's hard to stop playing, and it is time for bed' helps them feel understood, which can reduce their resistance and help them learn to cooperate over time.
Helping your child fall asleep without you in the room
Instead of an abrupt change, you can help your child build confidence by making small, gradual shifts in your bedtime routine over time. The goal is to slowly increase their independence while making sure they continue to feel safe and secure.
How to help child fall asleep without needing you every night?
Instead of an abrupt change, you can help your child build confidence by making small, gradual shifts in your bedtime routine over time. The goal is to slowly increase their independence while making sure they continue to feel safe and secure.